Clitoral Orgasm: Understanding female genitalia
It is widely known that a female orgasm is more difficult to achieve but they should not be a rarity so here you have some advices on how to reach clitoral orgasms. The clitoris is the most sensitive erogenous zone of a woman which looks like a button situated close to the junction of labia minor, above the opening of the vagina. Clitoris stimulation may lead to clitoral erection and clitoral orgasms. A clitoris orgasm may be achieved after prolonged clitoris stimulation. When a woman is aroused, the clitoris becomes bigger and change color. This is mainly due to the irrigation of the erectile tissues with blood. However, the clitoris is more than the visible part. Some of the specialists are convinced that the G spot is actually the back of the clitoris.
Clitoris stimulation can be done in many ways. The best way to stimulate the clitoris is by oral ways, meaning cunnilingus. Given that the clitoris is the most sensitive zone it is much more stimulated by the texture of the tongue, and it can also alternate between soft and hard. In some women, cunnilingus may end in female ejaculation. A great way of stimulating the clitoris is using the fingers. It is not as exciting as oral stimulation but if using very good techniques it can be very enjoyable. A good clitoral stimulation with fingers means also playing with the vagina. However, there are different sex toys specially designed to tease and stimulate the clitoris. They come with vibrations or without, in different shapes and sizes.
It is not a secret that female orgasm and female ejaculation are hard to achieve during intercourse when the stimulation of the clitoris is limited. Still, specific positions allow clitoral stimulation. One of them is the coital alignment technique which is a position specially designed for clitoral stimulation. It is a variation of the missionary position but the man’s pelvis is a bit higher than usual and the woman’s legs are wrapped around his waist. The woman is the one she thrusts while the man gently rocks back and forth. The clitoris may be stimulated in positions like doggy style or spooning or when she is on top.
No matter the technique used, you should know that the first step to get a clitoris orgasm is to know your body. Most of the women who cannot get an orgasm just do not know their bodies well enough in order to be able to guide their partners to their hottest spots. So no ladies, they cannot do the entire job by themselves. It is crucial that a woman knows her body and knows what she likes the most in order to get an orgasm. A very good communication between partners also helps in order to let him know what you like or dislike. Let him know what he does best and what not, when to keep going or when to stop. Communication plays maybe the most important role in a relationship and might be the key to achieving orgasms.
Clitoral orgasms are not as difficult to achieve as some think, but with the right stimulation and good communication between partners it can become a reachable goal.